If you have your suspicions that your partner is having an affair, but for your own peace of mind you need to be sure about the infidelity, investigation is an option but, before you go out and hire a private investigator, make sure that you know what you are getting yourself in to. There is…
Read moreDo not use what you find on your cheating spouse as ammunition for revenge. Sure, you may have wonderfully violent fantasies of what you would really like to do to him/her and the other person. This is very normal. But, don’t act them out. Using what you find to extract revenge will only lengthen the…
Read moreAsk someone why they had, or are having an affair and you may hear something like this: „I have a lousy marriage. My marriage is dead. There is no intimacy, no sex, and no excitement. The love is gone. We’ve grown apart. I can’t stand the marriage. There was nothing happening in the marriage and…
Read moreHearing that your cheating spouse is „in love“ with someone else is devastating. I hear often, „I can handle her having sex with someone else. I think I can live with that. But, for her to give herself emotionally and „love“ someone else…man, that is hard.“ (Feel free to substitute the word he for she…
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„I Want to Get Back at Him/Her“ ist eine von 6 Arten von Affären, die ich in meinem E-Book skizziere. Das ist die „Rache-Affäre„. Es tritt in einer Ehe auf, in der man sich in irgendeiner Weise beleidigt fühlt und sich rächen will, indem man sich auf eine Affäre einlässt. Es ist weniger eine Bewegung…
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